Smile Please, The Sky Is Pink

Recently I watched two movies that really touched my heart – Smile Please and The Sky Is Pink. Some stories resonate with you, making you think deeper, giving different perspective to a particular situation.

Nandini, the successful fashion photographer in Smile Please, struggles to come in terms with the diagnosis of early stage of dementia. She finds hope in Viraj, a stranger, who makes her believe in herself and continue to pursue her dreams.

The Sky is Pink is a rendering story of a couple who make it their mission to take care of their daughter diagnosed with a rare generic disorder. Daughter’s survival and happiness becomes a prime purpose of life for a mother, who is undergoing many personal struggles within.

  • Smile Please and The Sky Is Pink movies highlight the role of a caregivers during critical times of illness

Both the movies focus on another important aspect – role of family and friends during illness. Personal experiences have made me realize that it’s the immediate family and caregiver who many times need hope, direction and empathy.

The care givers go through a different journey – coming to terms with the diagnosis, doctors, taking sensitive and important decisions, finances, etc. Above all an emotional phase – dealing with the patient, people around, managing daily lives, so many of them. At this point it is hope and their courage that helps caregivers sail through this storm.

Perhaps it’s the reason why I connected so deeply with the story and emotions. Last three years I have discovered so many aspects of my own self while attending to my mother’s illness. Deep within you become empathetic, start valuing people in your lives, making you realize the importance of good health, finances and even your professional and personal goals.

How did this phase change me?

  • I started taking care of my own health
  • Becoming fit and eating health became more important
  • Developed patience, empathy and more gratitude
  • Overcame psychological barriers
  • Learned to cook some more recipes

Hence, Smile Please, The Sky Is Pink have faith and hope, discover yourself during the darkest of the times!

The Crown & The Queen’s world

I finished watching The Crown Season 3 in four days. Though OTT has become our primary entertainment, I am not a binge watcher. Then why is The Crown special? It’s the evolution of the young Elizabeth to the Queen, the monarch. The series reflects the inner struggle, journey of so many women, thus making you reflect on so many hidden sometimes not so hidden emotions. The first season made me go back to the history books and political developments. It hooked me to Netflix.

While the plot unfolds, glimpse of the life of royals – the drama was personally fascinating. I remember seeing images of the Queen on television, photos of their annual Christmas parties or royal weddings in newspapers. History textbooks referred to the royals from colonialist perspective. They taught us that Lord Mountbatten was the last Viceroy of India. The closest I came to Royals was on a tour of the Buckingham Palace during my stay in London. Other memories are that of passing by the palace on the eve of Prince William’s wedding or seeing the palace in Edinburg. So, The Crown lifted the veil for me of the royals and opened my mind to the British history.

Each season reveals so many facets of Queen Elizabeth. The narrative has changed my perspective about the Queen as a person. Her relationship with her father, love for her sister, decision to marry Philip or passion for riding is what every girl wants, dreams of.  The young Elizabeth wears The Crown, reluctantly and with a lot of apprehension. As she assumes this new responsibility, time and again she juggles between her personal thoughts, emotions and views against those of the establishment, family and the crown’s legacy.

Elizabeth learns the ropes of power, decision making, diplomacy with a kind heart. Her dialogues with successive prime ministers demonstrate this change – from vulnerability to decisiveness. The Crown Season 3 has ample evidence of the Queen and their maturity. Her concern for the school children caught in the mining incidence, efforts to save sister’s marriage, helplessness in matters of Prince Charles personal life or her visit to the ailing uncle -all stuck an emotional chord.

Watching her journey made me reflect on our daily lives. Some rules we have to follow or can decide to over rule as we assume responsibility – personally or professionally. Every woman at some stage has to decide between her dreams and her duties. Balancing once personal relationships while in office or position of power. More importantly it is what we take from these incidents is makes the difference. As the Queen thanks her uncle – His not accepting the crown changed her life forever. At the cross roads of life, our decisions and thoughts have the power to transform our lives.